When two individuals get attracted to each other out of mutual interests and affection for each other, it results in friendship. In friendship, trust is the most important factor which makes a friendship healthy. Whenever there is breach of trusts in friendship, it breaks. Because of this trust only, you share lots of secrets with your friends. You have strong belief that your friends will not let out your secrets out in front of anyone. Sometimes you can share your secret feelings with anyone even your parents, you share them with your friends. In the same manner, your friend trusts you and shares his or her secrets with you. He/ she also expects the same from you; you cannot leak their secret out.
A friendship is worthy only when your friend and you can trust each other. A true friend is always trustworthy. You are not supposed to use a friends’ secret even as a joke. You can share your deepest darkest secrets and fears with your friends. You can make confession before them. You know that your friends will never take advantage of it. If you let out your friend’s secret to other people, it is not only you breach that particular friends’ trust and loose them. But you may lose other friends too because nobody will trust you for anything. This action of yours may let you lose your respect among your peer group. So, never bring up the topic of or involving the secret if you can't help it :P
Tips on how you can keep your friends’ secrets :
- Do not tell anybody how hard they try. Suppress your urge to tell the friends’ secret.
- Do not tell anybody how hard they try. Suppress your urge to tell the friends’ secret.
- Do not act as if you have some inside information.
- Play along and stay calm.
- Just simply refuse to tell anything if others ask you.
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